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Patti C asked:


Obviously, this is the height of impropriety and greediness – for the bride to actually have her registry information listed on the actual wedding invitation. However, some still choose to do so. Even though some do it … that does not make this correct. My question is, after being confronted with this type of bad behavior, what is the proper behavior of the guest?

I tend to believe that if confronted with poor manners, that the polite thing to do is to ignore the offensive behavior. Therefore, I will deliberately choose to purchase a present that is appropriate for the bride and groom, and expressly not on their registry. If they had been particularly rude, then I will have it monogrammed so they cannot return or regift it. This feels kind of petty, but I do not confront their error, and still acknowledge the importance of their wedding day with an appropriate gift. This usually is not an issue… but I have TWO invitations with registry info on them.

What do you do?
Just a quick example of what causes a monogram on something…. bride had listed on the reception card that cash would be accepted as a gift.

No, really. On the reception card, it says, “Gifts of cash will be greatly appreciated.”

FIANCEE
Rebecca S asked:


My fiancee’s father recently passed away and his childhood dog must now come live with us. Duncan is a soft-coated Wheaton Terrier, and is 12 years old. He is extremely aggressive towards other animals, including birds, cats, other dogs, even alligators (they lived in FL.) We have living in our apartment with us our 2 year old cat, Truman. Truman is very easy going, and loves all people and has never had a problem with other animals, he is around other dogs and cats all the time. What is the best way to make this household work? What can I do?

La Sposa
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karenqt22 asked:


Im a permanent resident of the US (greencard holder) and I have a fiancee living abroad. Were going to have a baby in 3 months and im plannning to give birth in the US. I want our child to have his last name.

WhiteOne
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babygirl_2sweet asked:


My fiancee and I dont have sex much since I am further along in my pregnancy. At first we did, but now Im like 5 months. Im wondering if their is something I can do to help. As for myself Im never in the mood these days. Sometimes he is in the mood. He mostly sleep a lot though.

Raul Novias
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Lil mama asked:


My fiancee overstayed his Visa and we currently cannot get married in the state we reside because it is expired, we cannot even get his name added to the birth certificate for our daughter. We have begun talking to a lawyer and have tried looking into doing things here, but if it’s impossiable for us to get married here, we are thinking about going to his country and trying to do it from his country. This is causing an emmense strain between the two of us because of the worrying of keeping our family together. If anyone can help I thank you in advance.
To Cristanine atleast we are doing something about the situation. Don’t call us stupid for trying to do things legally. He had every right to be here, he stayed here because of our daughter if that is stupid to you would you have rather had him leave us?
To Astucias he was here going to school I can’t turn him in to an employer. His parents were paying for his schooling, and living expenses.
WHY DO PEOPLE MAKE STATEMENTS ABOUT THINGS THAT ARE NOT RELAVENT TO THE QUESTION?? STICK TO THE QUESTION AND NOT POST REMARKS HAVING NOTHING TO DO WITH THE SUBJECT.

WhiteOne
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SB asked:


I know gardenias are out of season.

Other sweet smelling tropical flowers that are lovely at night are great too.

Suggestions?

WhiteOne

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Terri A asked:


My fiancee is in mardan pakistan does anyone know the steps to take to get him to US? Does he still need visa if we are getting married? What govt agency can help me or do I need a lawyer?

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